![]() He’s not doing anything wrong, and he doesn’t have to stop. “People tense and contract muscles in their pelvis-muscles at the base of penis-during periods of prolonged stimulation. “It sounds like what he’s having is a pelvic floor muscle spasm,” said Dr. Winter thinks you might need a different sort of exam altogether. But it's super uncommon and when it happens, the patient is usually stressed out and very apologetic about it.”Īs for your problem-sensitivity around the base of your penis after one of your extended butt-play JO sessions-Dr. “It is the role of any self-respecting sex-positive clinician to acknowledge that these things are normal and move on. ![]() “Unintended genital responses-whether erection, or prostatic secretion during a rectal exam-are normal and occur on occasion,” said Dr. That said, while intentional perving is rare, some people do get aroused during exams. There is so much shame around ‘butt stuff’ and so I can easily see how this happens.” (It’s also possible that I’m the one doing the projecting here, as I was the one who raised the issue.) “And while I can't rule out the possibility that the urologist who saw PABC was ‘weirded out’ by his comments, it seems more likely that PABC is projecting that on to his doctor. “In extremely rare instances patients are manipulative or fetishize their exams, but this is extremely uncommon,” said Dr. Winter again if some people do go to the doctor for that. But while I had her on the phone, I asked Dr. There’s nothing wrong with massaging an anus for the sake of massaging an anus, of course, but no one needs to go to med school and/or to the doctor for that. “And I have long fingers! In those cases, I will probably do a quick in-and-out because taking longer would just involve me massaging the anus with no specific information being gathered.” “Some patients have a very ‘high-riding prostate,’ for example, and that’s difficult to feel except for the apex, or the tip, of the prostate,” said Dr. “But on numerous occasions, I’ve had a patient say, ‘Wow, that was way more detailed of a prostate exam than my primary care doctor did.’ And generally, that comment is meant as a ‘thank you,’ as in, ‘thank you for being detail-oriented.’”īut just as a prostate exam that ends quickly isn’t evidence a doctor is worried a patient might be perving, an exam that ends quickly also isn’t evidence a doctor isn’t being thorough. ![]() Ashley Winter, a board-certified urologist in Portland, Oregon. “I’ve never had a patient specifically say they wanted me to ‘take my time’ with a prostate exam,” said Dr. I added that the last exam I got from my primary care physician didn't last long enough to feel very accurate and encouraged my urologist to take as much time as he wanted up there. At our first visit, I told him very directly that my father had prostate cancer and I really wanted him to take his time with the exam and to really make sure all is well with my prostate. I'm a little uncomfortable talking with my urologist because he treats me like a long-lost uncle. It's very hard to stop something that feels so incredibly good. ![]() I obviously don't want to hurt myself, and I don't think I am, but it's a concern. I should also state that my sessions last up to two hours, and I'm erect during most of that time. While I've been practicing butt stuff for a long time, I feel as I've only perfected it in the last year or so. sessions with a lot of prostate stimulation.
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